Since when is fear not adult? I'm continuously boggled by the idea that adulthood == sainthood. No. Fear, even fear without grounds, even fear you *should* overcome is adult.
I'm not saying there's really an answer, but I think that people who dislike dogpiling (and omg this is not the definition of dogpiling, really. Wow.) maybe need to consider that it's not Other People's Problems.
Well. Strictly speaking, they do. They avoid the situations by not speaking and not dogpiling and twitching when it occurs. I mean, it's a knee jerk response. I'm not sure there *is* a way to solve it.
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Since when is fear not adult? I'm continuously boggled by the idea that adulthood == sainthood. No. Fear, even fear without grounds, even fear you *should* overcome is adult.
I'm not saying there's really an answer, but I think that people who dislike dogpiling (and omg this is not the definition of dogpiling, really. Wow.) maybe need to consider that it's not Other People's Problems.
Well. Strictly speaking, they do. They avoid the situations by not speaking and not dogpiling and twitching when it occurs. I mean, it's a knee jerk response. I'm not sure there *is* a way to solve it.